Whose life are you living? Whose path are you really on? And, are you following your BLISS?

Most of us are stuck on a path that we once thought was the right one. But it was likely based on external expectations, social conditioning and implanted stories and values that, in most cases, are not true to who we really are. Living a life that doesn’t feel authentic can lead to disappointment and frustration, leaving you empty and void of a sense of meaning, purpose and fulfillment.

So, how do we find our BLISS (and what is bliss anyway?) and how do we discover our authentic path?

The answer lies in the Hero’s Journey (à la philosopher Joseph Campbell), which encourages us to go to the places that challenge and sometimes scare us the most—the cave we fear to enter holds the treasure we seek. We must embark on these journeys time and time again, each time returning with new understandings and insights into who we truly are. The most important part of these journeys is to understand the lessons and transform them into stories. Then to condense them into three words—our core values—and then adapt those words into a personal philosophy.

Knowing your values and personal philosophy will help you:

  • Manifest your Hero’s Journey

  • Find your BLISS

  • Discover your authentic path

  • Define your values

  • Know your guiding principles

  • Make decisions

  • Proactively set healthy boundaries (rather than defensively and reactively)

  • Know what your needs are and how do you ask for them to be met

  • Prioritize the limited time you have each day

  • Find out what’s most important to you in your life

  • Know what you are most passionate about

“LOVE is what we’re born with. FEAR is what we learn.”

- Sir Ken Robinson

VALUE WORDS

Acceptance

Accountability

Achievement

Action

Adaptability

Adventure

Altruism

Ambition

Approval

Authenticity

Awareness

Awe

Balance

Beauty

Being known

Being the best

Belonging

Bravery

Career

Caring

Challenge

Change

Collaboration

Commitment

Community

Compassion

Competence

Competition

Confidence

Connection

Contentment

Contribution

Cooperation

Courage

Creativity

Curiosity

Dignity

Diversity

Environment

Efficiency

Emotional Intelligence

Equality

Equanimity

Eroticism

Ethics

Excellence

Excitement

Fairness

Faith

Family

Financial stability

Fitness

Flow

Forgiveness

Freedom

Friendship

Fun

Future generations

Generosity

Giving back

Grace

Gratitude

Growth

Harmony

Health

Home

Honesty

Hope

Humility

Humor

Inclusion

Independence

Initiative

Insight

Integration

Integrity

Intimacy

Intuition

Job security

Joy

Justice

Kindness

Knowing

Knowledge

Leadership

Learning

Legacy

Leisure

Love

Loyalty

Mattering

Making a difference

Mastery

Meaning

Mission

Music

Nature

Openness

Optimism

Order

Parenting

Passion

Patience

Patriotism

Peace

Perseverance

Personal fulfillment

Power

Predictability

Pride

Purpose

Recognition

Reliability

Resilience

Resolution

Resourcefulness

Respect

Responsibility

Risk-taking

Safety

Security

Self-awareness

Self-discipline

Self-expression

Self-respect

Sensuality

Serenity

Service

Sexuality

Simplicity

Spirituality

Sportsmanship

Stability

Stewardship

Success

Teamwork

Thrift

Time

Tradition

Travel

Trust

Truth

Understanding

Uniqueness

Usefulness

Vision

Voice

Vulnerability

Wealth

Well-being

Wellness

Wholeheartedness

Wisdom

Worldview